The dating memes are quite true, having browsed the secular Facebook dating app

"I have two children and am now looking to settle down with my forever person. I've had guys give me a chance, however they weren't willing to be a doormat and so they soon left. I'm going to refer to them as "men in the past have played games with me", which has given me "trust issues". What you are going to need to do to build that trust is become my doormat, anything you do that doesn't fit my preference is a "trigger" for my "anxiety" that reminds me of a past abusive ex. Also, I'll never gain that 'trust', you'll be forever aiming toward a light on an escalating staircase that is too fast for you. Also, when it's me I'm "plus size", you're just an ugly twat".

Guys, if any woman quite quickly talk about ex's to you - in particular if it's about them being 'abusive' or 'autistic', or how they have 'trust issues', or how they are looking for some variation of their 'forever person', or are 'plus-sized', do not talk to them.