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robertsnj · 56-60, M
would not use the word choice of worst but may oddest. In this context odd being foreign to me (but may not be to a reader) i figure I am not really in a place to judge others reasons for uncoupling but when i was younger i was dumped 2 different times for being an atheist.
The odd part was I told each of them up front I did not believe in God (like 1st or 2nd date) and they had this odd mental battle in their own heads were I was a good guy, brought things to the table but after their own internal mental battle said "nope can't get past the non-belief thing" In both cases we were already having sex.
the logisitcs of it is they likely had a convesation with said divine figure in their head for a time / debated the idea of dating me and divine figure said "nope get rid that bum" or some variation of that idea.
I can't image having a life where one has divine conversations in their head and makes any life decisions based on those "conversations" But than I live in a country (USA) where many (if not most based on data of believers in the USA) make decisions based on divine convesations on everything from jobs, where they live, how they vote (with the "independants" being the most interesting) and how they spend their time.
The odd part was I told each of them up front I did not believe in God (like 1st or 2nd date) and they had this odd mental battle in their own heads were I was a good guy, brought things to the table but after their own internal mental battle said "nope can't get past the non-belief thing" In both cases we were already having sex.
the logisitcs of it is they likely had a convesation with said divine figure in their head for a time / debated the idea of dating me and divine figure said "nope get rid that bum" or some variation of that idea.
I can't image having a life where one has divine conversations in their head and makes any life decisions based on those "conversations" But than I live in a country (USA) where many (if not most based on data of believers in the USA) make decisions based on divine convesations on everything from jobs, where they live, how they vote (with the "independants" being the most interesting) and how they spend their time.