Need some advice, y’all.

So the new girl I’ve been seeing has been super understanding — I had to cancel our plans because I got really sick. I’m feeling a lot better now, but I still feel pretty rough. I look like pure dog shit and have zero energy. It legit took everything in me just to get off the couch and shower today.

She really wants to come over tomorrow to watch football, but I’m torn. I want to see her, but I don’t want her to get sick (even though I’m pretty sure it was food poisoning and not contagious). Plus, things are still really new between us, and I’m not sure if having her see me like this is a good idea.

What would y’all do in my situation?

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Pretzel · 70-79, M

1) if you have a fever - don't let her come over - do a Google meet and watch the game together

2) if you aren't running a fever and don't feel like company - be honest and tell her - you shouldn't go against your instincts

3) if you feel like you could stand company - tell her you are feeling horrible and then casually work in the quote attributed to Marilyn Monroe

"if you want handle me at my worst - you don't deserve me at my best"