How and where to find a loving partner who won't abuse me :(

It's a very challenging world we live in, that's for sure. I'd say that one of the best skills in this field is vetting. Being able to discern people who are intemperate or volatile is a skill that very few people master. The advice I would give is to learn what you can from what you have been through and also, try not to let your experiences poison your idea of love. There are many of us out here who value love, connection, mutuality, faithfulness and sacrifice. The best thing to do is to take your time with people to give them time to show you who they are in totality. Keeping your eyes open is definitely a good way to start though. 🙂

Best thing I can advise is understand the signs of a narcissistic person and avoid them, still plenty of caring empathetic people out here.

Listen to people's advice. Focus on being someone who has good boundaries and self worth.

*hugs you* I'd nevee abuse you.

Lower your expectations a little maybe and like, maybe try someone from cross-border?

Stop being so desperate for it and focus on other things in Ur life