I want a date...and I'm thinking of doing something crazy to get one...
There was a guy at an old job who was quite fond of me. I was fond of him too but since we worked at the same place, I didn't really show interest. We'd chat a little, mostly in passing as we didn't work in the same building.
He was just really nice, and I could tell that he totally wanted to ask me out but was stalling a bit. I'm sure it was because of my 'mixed signals".
It's been probably 2 years at this point.
I don't know his full name, so I can't just look him up, but I do know the full name of at least one person that he is associated with.
I've thought about reaching out to them via social media to see if they've heard from him, and to maybe get his last name so I can dig a bit. Maybe poke him on facebook or something🤪
Is this a stretch? I'm kinda joking... but I'm kinda not.
I'd rather talk to someone who I know is/was actually interested instead of dating around, trying to find somebody to actually put in effort.
@iamnikki if you think it is crazy that he'd be available, I suppose could be some truth to that. But ,there would be nothing wrong with sending him a friend request on Facebook. Where it goes from there would be depending on the circumstances at present.
I've learned to leave the past in the past.. though I've had people from the past reached out to me, it never went anywhere. If it's meant to be, your paths will cross eventually
"I'm kinda joking... but I'm kinda not".... Yeah, I can see the mixed signals and I can guarantee he was not stalling, he just couldn't understand when to make the right move.
