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I want a date...and I'm thinking of doing something crazy to get one...

There was a guy at an old job who was quite fond of me.
I was fond of him too but since we worked at the same place, I didn't really show interest.
We'd chat a little, mostly in passing as we didn't work in the same building.

He was just really nice, and I could tell that he totally wanted to ask me out but was stalling a bit. I'm sure it was because of my 'mixed signals".


It's been probably 2 years at this point.

I don't know his full name, so I can't just look him up, but I do know the full name of at least one person that he is associated with.

I've thought about reaching out to them via social media to see if they've heard from him, and to maybe get his last name so I can dig a bit. Maybe poke him on facebook or something🤪



Is this a stretch?
I'm kinda joking... but I'm kinda not.

I'd rather talk to someone who I know is/was actually interested instead of dating around, trying to find somebody to actually put in effort.
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
Worth a try
Especially if he’s single and showed interest in the past
BeJeweled · F
I think you should give it a try. Life is short and he could be the one.
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
But why were you giving him mixed feelings...when you knew he was interested in you and you also interested in him.


What if, after getting to know his whereabouts, you end up finding out that he is married or ina serious relationship with another woman?
DarkXtecy · 36-40, M
@SilentObZerver then she will come back to SW for some emotional reinforcement.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@SilentObZerver
What if, after getting to know his whereabouts, you end up finding out that he is married or ina serious relationship with another woman?

I'm not a home wrecker, so I would move on.
Camelia · F
Go for it. Life is too short not to try.
Sapio · 51-55, M
Might as well go for it.
QueenandCrown · 41-45, F
I've learned to leave the past in the past.. though I've had people from the past reached out to me, it never went anywhere.
If it's meant to be, your paths will cross eventually
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@QueenandCrown I'm not looking for a relationship though, just fun
DarkXtecy · 36-40, M
"I'm kinda joking... but I'm kinda not"....
Yeah, I can see the mixed signals and I can guarantee he was not stalling, he just couldn't understand when to make the right move.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@SomeMichGuy cause it's crazy lol
@iamnikki If you liked each other, it is NOT crazy!
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@iamnikki its not crazy
Bang5luts · M
Yeah dating sure has changed. That's for sure. Building a report with someone and starting from scratch can be daunting. Either way I wish you luck
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
You should do it
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@Jenny1234 I've realized it's actually been 3 years...I looked at my resume. 😬
CactusJackManson · 46-50, M
You only live once. Go for it.

 
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