People say its better to find a new job when you already have one, is this why people go on dating apps when they are in relationships?

@SW-User i heard women often pick guys more from the taken pool because they are proven to be able to be in a relationship.
like they are vetted already!

@popmol You heard correct. Whoever is telling you this stuff is an oracle...continue listening to them.

@popmol kind of counter intuitive. If these guys are being picked outside their relationship, it also proves they aren't faithful. (Assuming monogamy is still the norm).

@SW-User I don't think monogamy is the norm anymore. It should be, but it isn't.

@SamInAZ I think it's still the norm. At least around me and from what I am aware of. But I know there are other arrangements in which case it's not a question of unfaithfulness.

@SW-User well I hope you're right.

@SamInAZ some people do it like that but not all. generalisations don't work when its half the populace of 8 billion.

@SW-User true but i have friends and family who often find girlfriends in the friends around their girlfriend, not in the cheating kind of way but like they were waiting there for it to fail and get in there.

@popmol it feels like a gray line. But to each their own, right?

The pattern bit stands.

@SW-User well i mean i just wanted to say some hide it so its not cheating they are just there to instantly take in the place thats not the guys fault or woman if the roles are reversed. if they made it happen sure its cheating of some kind.

@popmol does cheating begin with the thought or intention or with the final act? Were they considering it while in the relationship?
We don't know.
So gray line for me.
Also I don't think everyone sees cheating the same way. What is cheating for me may not be for them ...and it's okay. As long as all people involved in their scenario is in alignment, my opinion on the matter is irrelevant.

@SW-User the guys never thought of it, the woman did so they are "homewreckers" i think.
true.