On first dates women should pay for their own drinks and meals It's like window shopping, there...

Applepiedom · 56-60, M

Be a man. Accept you duty as a man and pay. Too many soft men in this world don't know how to be real men. You're supposed to win her over. Impress her show her how you'll treat her when she's yours.

Baz87 · 36-40, M

That maybe your way but not mine.

If I ask her out, I pay

YourMomsSecretCrush · M

Bruh, if that works for you, awesome. I never had many gold diggers lining up for me. I let them know I am a government employee who has four kids. If they continue talking after that, then I know they want me for me, not for the money. Most women talkin to the Crush Daddy are after something better than money. 😀

SooperSarah

Because guys always have the most wholesome intentions when they ask someone out.
If you want me to dedicate an evening of my time to having a meal with you, and you come up with some iou... well you'll be eating that iou. And you'll be doing so alone.

plungesponge · 41-45, M

I'm not that particular about these things, a cheeseburger isn't going to break my budget

BizSuitStacy · M

In my mind, it's already implied that whoever asks for the date, pays for the date.

StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M

Lol. What a great way to start a date. Sign this IOU please.

Underconstruction · F

No. If they guy asks you out he should pay.

iamBen · M

I think, if I invite someone on a date, I pay. They don't owe me anything at all. Though it would be polite of them to try to be pleasant company. We might find a connection, a spark. It might lead to more. But, if we don't, so be it.