This guy I’m talking to said he only wants to go on a date after we FaceTime. He said “just come up with ideas to talk about beforehand.”

@496sbc very good point

@Stuffy tnx. And if they are not who they say or claim to be they will never facetime u ever

@496sbc I definitely am who I say I am FaceTime just gives me anxiety and im not good at phone conversations. I’d rather just see him in person.

@Ghosting well I believe u but. The thing is it only has to be 1 minute so again just because u say im so in so doesn’t mean u are. With all the scammers out there. So id say the same thing to u. And if u liked me enough ud do it if not ok

@Ghosting set a time limit. Tell him you can only be on for a few minutes. Ask a friend to be there with you if makes you more comfortable or have a friend call you or knock on the door 5 minutes after the call starts so you have to go.
Just some ideas

Here’s another idea, practice face timing with a friend to get more comfortable

@Stuffy all amazing ideas

@496sbc Ty just wish to help if I can. I feel for her. Meeting new people can be awkward these days

@Stuffy i know right. Hey at least she has a guy. My gal dumped me and would not even call me. So I always been a 100 times loser in this area. I feel i will not find a gal

@496sbc I don’t see why I can’t just drive 3 hours to see him in person. 😅

@Stuffy I’m not even comfortable with my own mother. It’s okay I’ll just suffer through it.

@Ghosting idk hun im so sorry. I have had many scammers say they were real when they were not. Im not calling u that. But anyway ur lucky to at least have a guy. 😭

@Ghosting AND check him out for creepy serial killer vibes! Have fun with it!