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This guy I’m talking to said he only wants to go on a date after we FaceTime. He said “just come up with ideas to talk about beforehand.”

Is it just me or does it feel like a business transaction? I feel like he’s going to grill me. 😅
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Stuffy · 61-69, F
Sounds like he is awkward/ nervous about first conversation And thinks you might be too so trying to prevent awkward silence.
Ghosting · 26-30
@Stuffy I feel like FaceTime just makes that worse.
Stuffy · 61-69, F
@Ghosting did you tell him that? I agree
Ghosting · 26-30
@Stuffy No but I told him that. 😅
Stuffy · 61-69, F
@Ghosting what did you say
Ghosting · 26-30
@Stuffy I offered to meet up and he said he wanted to FaceTime first. I told him I’m not the best at phone conversations because of my anxiety. Then he said just come prepared with questions beforehand.
Stuffy · 61-69, F
@Ghosting come to the meet up with questions?
So that’s twice he’s on about questions?
That would be a tiny bit odd. But probably just trying to make sure you get to know each other. It’s not a bad idea, I would prepare questions but I wouldn’t expect someone to say that
Ghosting · 26-30
@Stuffy No to the FaceTime. It’s going to feel like a zoom interview. 😅
Stuffy · 61-69, F
@Ghosting ok I already knew that. Just try to get comfortable with the it. But you can back out if you can’t get comfortable
Stuffy · 61-69, F
@Ghosting text him what does he mean, what kind of questions? AND does he have a list of questions