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Awhile back I had a conversation with friends, which brought up what I thought was an interesting question…

If a young man, seeking to date, wants to know what would make him more attractive to women, should he ask his women friends for advice ? Or should he seek advice from male friends who are especially popular with women ?

One friend replied that asking women what women like would make more sense.
But another friend argued that while women could tell him what they found attractive, a popular man, who presumably dated different types of women, perhaps could advise what consistently worked in terms of attracting them.

What do you think makes more sense ?
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Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
His female friends. If he has any.
They'll know him well enough to be able to tell him the aspects of his personality they like (hence why he's a friend) and the things they couldn't cope with if they were to consider dating him.
Might be a horrible dent to his ego but a genuine appraisal