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Awhile back I had a conversation with friends, which brought up what I thought was an interesting question…

If a young man, seeking to date, wants to know what would make him more attractive to women, should he ask his women friends for advice ? Or should he seek advice from male friends who are especially popular with women ?

One friend replied that asking women what women like would make more sense.
But another friend argued that while women could tell him what they found attractive, a popular man, who presumably dated different types of women, perhaps could advise what consistently worked in terms of attracting them.

What do you think makes more sense ?
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perceptivei · 36-40, F
Interesting question.

I really think it depends on the age group. A younger woman (35 or below, give or take some) --- ask the man. A woman ready to commit --- ask the women friends.

There are so many factors the play into it, but I'd prefer a man who would take the womens' advice. Previously, I was attracted to "popular" men. Now... not at all.