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Awhile back I had a conversation with friends, which brought up what I thought was an interesting question…

If a young man, seeking to date, wants to know what would make him more attractive to women, should he ask his women friends for advice ? Or should he seek advice from male friends who are especially popular with women ?

One friend replied that asking women what women like would make more sense.
But another friend argued that while women could tell him what they found attractive, a popular man, who presumably dated different types of women, perhaps could advise what consistently worked in terms of attracting them.

What do you think makes more sense ?
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It depends if he has a history of lack of success with dating, or if he's had one or more fulfilling relationships. In the first case, he may want to ask people who know him what they're noticing about him that could be off-putting as he could be unwittingly sabotaging himself. I'm thinking things like only talking about himself, or showing signs of jealousy prematurely, being too controlling, etc.