Awhile back I had a conversation with friends, which brought up what I thought was an interesting question…

If a young man, seeking to date, wants to know what would make him more attractive to women, should he ask his women friends for advice ? Or should he seek advice from male friends who are especially popular with women ?

One friend replied that asking women what women like would make more sense.
But another friend argued that while women could tell him what they found attractive, a popular man, who presumably dated different types of women, perhaps could advise what consistently worked in terms of attracting them.

What do you think makes more sense ?

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JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

That is actually a tough question.

Women should be able to give you the best answer but sometimes women might not be truthful what they actually like. Sometimes I noticed women say one thing but fall for the opposite. They try not to appear as superficial and silly as men so they extole more lofty virtues. But of course some women are not that way.

Men on the other hand may be able to give you their tricks, but they are precisely that, tricks. They maybe be just deceit.

Tough call.