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Awhile back I had a conversation with friends, which brought up what I thought was an interesting question…

If a young man, seeking to date, wants to know what would make him more attractive to women, should he ask his women friends for advice ? Or should he seek advice from male friends who are especially popular with women ?

One friend replied that asking women what women like would make more sense.
But another friend argued that while women could tell him what they found attractive, a popular man, who presumably dated different types of women, perhaps could advise what consistently worked in terms of attracting them.

What do you think makes more sense ?
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I don't think it works either way.

The women will tell him what they like .
The popular man will tell him what the type of women he likes , likes.

But there's no guarantee that any of it will be what the women he's looking for like.

Edit : and truly ...he can't be anyone but himself....unless he wants to be a player.