I don’t know if I should just stop talking to him This guy I was talking to invited me over...

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I don’t know if I should just stop talking to him

This guy I was talking to invited me over last night to hang out with his family, it was 8pm and he called me to come later. I was already not liking the fact it was super late . At 11pm I went to bed because he didn’t call or say anything, I woke...

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SW-User

Sounds like you know what you need to do. He is just not ready for a new relationship yet

Sneakylink34 · 26-30, F

@SW-User yea this is true , I guess I will keep my distance , overall he’s a great guy and it’s much more to learn from him. I’m not used to taking time in relationships or any Situation .

Pretzel · 61-69, M

look at it this way
when the relationship is new the person is giving you the best they have to give and trying to make the best impression

THIS is the best he's got?

Sneakylink34 · 26-30, F

@Pretzel I will live by this!

AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

Please don't settle for someone who makes no effort. It's never going to get better. He may be a good guy, but he might need some time to set through old junk.

Sneakylink34 · 26-30, F

@AlchemyFox right he even told me he has a lot going on and is stressed from not working and trying to spend time with his kids , I want to understand but I will continue to live my life!

Teslin · M

You are feeling/seeing red flags.
It's OK to walk away.
But if you continue, take it slow and keep other options open.

Sneakylink34 · 26-30, F

@Teslin yes this is a good one as well thank you

Nelisme · 22-25, F

Sounds like he’s keeping you as a convenience for when he can’t get what he really wants. I’d tell him good luck and goodbye.

Sneakylink34 · 26-30, F

@Nelisme [center][/center] yup and I am not settling for less!

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Sneakylink34 · 26-30, F

@Bugbittinbrain lmao right I am not used to it .. I observe though , I don’t want to get into a relationship where the person isnt really giving me 100 percent

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Venturist

Thats a big red flag.

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