Why is it always the duty of a man to ask the woman for a date?
Men can be shy too. If you like him then, ask him to go out with you. Maybe that's the only barrier to possibly a wonderful relationship?
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orioninthenight · M
I had such a hard time approaching women when I was younger. I really struggled with this. When online dating came out I was so relieved. Then after I dated this absolute stunner my confidence kind of blew up big time. Nowadays I know I am not that great of a catch but my confidence is still there. I just can't be bothered to ask women out anymore. I'm over 40. I've been married before (almost twice). I know what relationships are like and just don't want the bother. I just want the sex without having to bother with the rest of it. This is why I have frequented hookers in the past, but now that I am older I don't even do that because I want to maintain my self respect.
It's funny to me now how much bullshit I used to put up with just to be in a relationship.
It's funny to me now how much bullshit I used to put up with just to be in a relationship.
IndianaJoes · M
@orioninthenight I get that... There are many shy men out there who could be the best personality that she ever met. Then after they get used a few times... (Men & Women both)... a good personality may choose to go dormant forever.
PleasurePunch · 100+
@orioninthenight who ever escaped it?
orioninthenight · M
