guy says he wants to go on a date to the movies so he can kiss

He wants to take me to the movies cause he says he wants to kiss me in the cinema. I don’t wanna get too overly touchy kissy as I wanna get to know each other well first. My ex was just into a woman’s body so I don’t want the same to be for this guy and plus I hate kissing. Someone else’s saliva just grosses me out. I wouldn’t mind going to the movies if he wanted to watch the movie and not kiss throughout the whole movie. What should I message him back and say?

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SnowedIn · 46-50, M

Be honest.

Tell him you're happy to join him for a movie but it's a movie date not a kiss date.

Be polite and honest and set your boundaries

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@SnowedIn should I tell him that when I get there or now I’m advance after he said that? How can I word it?

SnowedIn · 46-50, M

@Fifidog I'd tell him in advance. That's fair.

Id say, "I'd enjoy a movie but let's save making out for after we get to know each other."

If he doesn't want to go after that, you've dodged a bullet.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@SnowedIn what if I just say I’d enjoy watching the movie with you? Is that not direct enough?

SnowedIn · 46-50, M

@Fifidog ...maybe. But maybe not. He may not be savvy enough to pick up on the clue that you didn't say yes to the kissing so he assumes yes.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@SnowedIn good point thanks! What happens if I just change the topic and ignore that instead of addressing it?