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PhoenixPhail · M
The best thing about dating me is that it wouldn't be a "date."
That doesn't mean the idea of being in a relationship doesn't exist with me. It would be wonderful to be in a true relationship.
But, "dating" is typically about satisfying conditions and accommodating criteria; how someone looks, how successful they are, how well they can satisfy your needs, how compatible their demons are with yours....
If it's in the cards for people to be in a romantic relationship with each other, it will become evident through the course of their being present with each other; in their being honest with each other, showing their true nature, their true caring and compassion, not trying to impress to win each other over. That's what people learn from television and advertising. Those aren't examples of true, unconditional caring for someone. It's all bullshit.
That doesn't mean the idea of being in a relationship doesn't exist with me. It would be wonderful to be in a true relationship.
But, "dating" is typically about satisfying conditions and accommodating criteria; how someone looks, how successful they are, how well they can satisfy your needs, how compatible their demons are with yours....
If it's in the cards for people to be in a romantic relationship with each other, it will become evident through the course of their being present with each other; in their being honest with each other, showing their true nature, their true caring and compassion, not trying to impress to win each other over. That's what people learn from television and advertising. Those aren't examples of true, unconditional caring for someone. It's all bullshit.
