Two extremes of date night ideas

I guess that dates me, hentai ? Isnt that sexualized Japanese cartoons?

My best dates with my husband before we married usually involved dancing. Even after we were married , dancing is still important.
We held each other, looked into each other's eyes, and talked even while getting to know each other. We had 6 dates before I would agree to meet at his house for dinner and a movie. I was shy, and an abuse victim growing up. But whatever gets you together with him that feels comfortable and you both enjoy? That is a good date.

But why not?

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