Dating feels like an unforgiving barren hellscape right now lol 😂

@Chickie Is it a personal reason or something you feel like you can talk about?

@wanderer1991 well, long story shot I went through a lot at a young age and I realized that I have attachment issues. The men that hit on I have no interest in or I feel like are "losers" I know that harsh but it's like overwhelming when someone flirts with me because I don't know what to say and I get scared and feel like I have to say yes then I'm a black woman we're the most least desirable.

@Chickie I hear ya, some people are just not attractive though lol. You can't like everyone. All you gotta do is say "Sorry I'm not interested". And there's nothing wrong with being black so just get that thought out of your head.

@wanderer1991 Aw thanks and I am now learning that but some people are just aggressive