dating a heavy drinker
First of all , i encourage anyone to message me if they have any problems theyd like to talk about !
I was talking to this one guy i met , for 4 months now , we clicked really fast and things were going well expect for the fact that we live really far away , and that would be the biggest issue in our relationship, but we had plans for the future that gave me some hope But , overtime i realized that hes an absolutely alcoholic ( 20-40 shots of vodka a week , in 1-2 sittings ) his body is so used to it that he doesnt even feel hangover or anything . Hes been drinkin for years now and he also has anger issues ( punching walls or yelling at people ) and recently i realized that - because of my past experiences and trauma , the drinking might be a big problem in our relationship . I need peace and quet , safety - in a relationship. I tried helping him out but he doesnt want that , he was always really sweet , weird in a good way and we had things to talk about , i loved the way he looked at me on our videocalls and out of no where , yesterday he decided that he wants to push me away and get some ‘him time’ to read , train and drink . Realizing that he wants to choose vodka over me - someone who really tried to be there for him and possibly maybe love him - messed with my head so much . What do you think?
I was talking to this one guy i met , for 4 months now , we clicked really fast and things were going well expect for the fact that we live really far away , and that would be the biggest issue in our relationship, but we had plans for the future that gave me some hope But , overtime i realized that hes an absolutely alcoholic ( 20-40 shots of vodka a week , in 1-2 sittings ) his body is so used to it that he doesnt even feel hangover or anything . Hes been drinkin for years now and he also has anger issues ( punching walls or yelling at people ) and recently i realized that - because of my past experiences and trauma , the drinking might be a big problem in our relationship . I need peace and quet , safety - in a relationship. I tried helping him out but he doesnt want that , he was always really sweet , weird in a good way and we had things to talk about , i loved the way he looked at me on our videocalls and out of no where , yesterday he decided that he wants to push me away and get some ‘him time’ to read , train and drink . Realizing that he wants to choose vodka over me - someone who really tried to be there for him and possibly maybe love him - messed with my head so much . What do you think?
22-25, F
