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Date advice!

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Flowers!
No flowers
Bring him chocolate because everyone likes chocolate
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Soooo ive fallen for someone pretty hard for the first time in 3 years I could be in a relationship.

He’s sweet and has such an amazing soul. He doesn’t sexualise me because I’m bi like many other men have done before! He’s accepting and just fantastic.

We went on our first date on Saturday and it went really well! We’ve agreed to meet up on Friday and go on another date and if it goes well we will make it official.


Now, I was wondering if I should buy him flowers. Would buying a guy flowers on your like first official date be weird? He’d have to carry them around with us all day and would he like that? Would he hate it?

We are going on a cute museum date, going to cafe and watch a movie together using my iPad and then we said about going out for a meal after.

Would flowers be a bad idea? I want it to be special because hes not gone out with anyone and I just want it to go well. What should
I do? Help!
eMortal · M
Don’t buy him flowers. It’s your bi brain talking. You don’t conquer a man the same way you do with a woman.
If he’s the one always paying, choose to cover at least for the meal. Tell him it’s your treat and insist.
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Ahumanbeing · 22-25, F
@eMortal toxic but okay
eMortal · M
@Ahumanbeing true. I delete that.
You could but if youre uncertain on whether flowers are something he likes or not maybe just dont get them yet. Or do and find out haha. If he feels comfortable enough to be honest .
Your date sounds like a lot of fun i love going to museums and watching movies with my so. Im jealous, have fun n try not to overthink it
spice1 · M
I wouldn't mind if a girl gave me flowers but I wouldn't carry them around I would toss them in the car and take them home, I suggest not buying him flowers he'll probably think it's weird and it'll throw the whole date off, be yourself and enjoy the time together and see how it goes.
TexChik · F
How is he going to dress? Sport coat and pants or Jeans and a T shirt? If he is going to wear a sport coat a boutonniere would be appropriate. Flowers might be a bit much.
KA9ha · 31-35, M
get a pack of dark chocolate so that both can munch on it seperately or mouth to mouth. ...it will bring him closer to you.. ...
I am surprised that he should got a silky nut slab for you on first date
Theyitis · 36-40, M
Flowers would be a nice gesture that he should appreciate, but I’ve personally always found chocolate to be more enjoyable.
WhateverWorks · 36-40
They likely won’t let you bring flowers into the museum. Maybe a small thing of funny chocolates?

 
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