Do i have to create space

If im dating a girl

i was told to not message her all the time, space and pulling back will create attraction and emotional attachment

how do i win a girl over?

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Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

Don’t message her wait for her to message you most of the time. For example if you always message good morning. Make sure she does it at least two out of three days first. My gf always messages me first in the morning.

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Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@2pacfan I know how exciting it is at your age to have a new gf but bombarding her with texts will make her lose interest.

2pacfan · 26-30, M

@Muthafukajones so space creates love?

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@2pacfan space creates several things:

Scarcity of your presence making you more valuable and attractive

The illusion of importance since the one who contacts is the one who is seeking attention

The illusion of business which is status which woman love. Making you seem more attractive.

You should strive to have high quality meaningful texts to women.

Quality over quantity.

SW-User

No that's bad advice, some woman want to know you want them or are interested. Playing games is not a good way to start. Do what feels natural to you.

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SW-User

@2pacfan depends on the person know your audience

2pacfan · 26-30, M

@SW-User You sound like a feminist

SW-User

@2pacfan LOL not sure how you got that from answers. Do whatever I don't care

Whodunnit · M

Just be you. She'll either like who you are or she won't.

It's unwise to change your behaviour to 'win' someone over as it's impossible to keep up that sort of charade forever.

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Whodunnit · M

@2pacfan Was it her that told you that?

2pacfan · 26-30, M

@Whodunnit my mates

Whodunnit · M

@2pacfan Unless she tells you herself I'd just keep on being you.

Jenny1234 · 56-60, F

Give her space. Give her a chance to wonder about you

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