Would you consider job issues as legit reason for letting someone down?
I kept her waiting for 3 years which ended with me graduating. And like right the day after, she seemed like it didn't matter to her anymore. It could have been her current mood as she's sometimes a bit moody. But as she then told me that she planned on having kids some day and alongside told me I should better find a job soon, I told myself that would be my goal for dating her and making that wish of hers true.
Little did I know that maybe not even 6 weeks after telling me of that, she already dated some jerk who she told me of even 5 months later. She barely made it to half a year with him, which I somehow hoped for. But as my career issues continued for longer than I expected, she meanwhile dated another jerk she doesn't seem happy with. We do talk like before, except for her not sweet-talking like she did for weird reasons while dating that first jerk before she told me of him.
Friends claimed that it could be some game to her to make me jealous, since she told me she'd still go out with me if she was single. I can't fall back to where a friend of mine got stuck until today. But still I'd see her leave me soon enough if I wouldn't have a steady job (seems important to her). In my opinion we shared quite some personal moments solely by talking. Her female friend once told me that if she didn't want to talk to me anymore that I should accept that, but she never did. A female friend of mine said though that whatever was there could just be friendship. But hands down, why would she get physical with some jerk way faster than she would make friends?
Getting physical with her after such a long time after she quit with a jerk she got physical with way too fast would make her seem to me like just as random as her exes were to her after all. Or should I take into account that I've at least progressed in pursuing my goals and thus try and convince her into leaving that fling thing with her jerk behind and instead finally date me?
Little did I know that maybe not even 6 weeks after telling me of that, she already dated some jerk who she told me of even 5 months later. She barely made it to half a year with him, which I somehow hoped for. But as my career issues continued for longer than I expected, she meanwhile dated another jerk she doesn't seem happy with. We do talk like before, except for her not sweet-talking like she did for weird reasons while dating that first jerk before she told me of him.
Friends claimed that it could be some game to her to make me jealous, since she told me she'd still go out with me if she was single. I can't fall back to where a friend of mine got stuck until today. But still I'd see her leave me soon enough if I wouldn't have a steady job (seems important to her). In my opinion we shared quite some personal moments solely by talking. Her female friend once told me that if she didn't want to talk to me anymore that I should accept that, but she never did. A female friend of mine said though that whatever was there could just be friendship. But hands down, why would she get physical with some jerk way faster than she would make friends?
Getting physical with her after such a long time after she quit with a jerk she got physical with way too fast would make her seem to me like just as random as her exes were to her after all. Or should I take into account that I've at least progressed in pursuing my goals and thus try and convince her into leaving that fling thing with her jerk behind and instead finally date me?
