Should I tell people I am interested in dating all the bad things about me up front?

That’s not really how that works considering a lot of those things are subjective. So, what you may think is bad about you someone may actually love or not see as a bad thing. People can be turn off by numerous things including things you think are good about you. Just get to know people in an authentic way and let them do the same rather than handing them a list of qualities you don’t like about yourself. It’s a lot easier and less humiliating.

I think you should wait and see if they are worth sharing that part of you with them

If you like clingy dysfunctional women thats a great strategy.

yes, the person who accepts will be rare but they will be true

I've found people take past abuse as a license to follow suit. Idk what your bad is but im pretty honest and I wait to see who stays.

Do you think people are nice enough to look past things and taking a chance , before even getting to know you ?

What are you talking about you are like an angel walking on the runway in heaven

As real and authentic as that is, and I respect that - no. Cause people are weird at the start and get more real as you get to know each other

Absolutely not.


You should present your best face. It is far more telling about the kind of person you are than any amount of disclosure or honesty.

Nope. Even you yourself will runaway of someone does that.

Yes
It's not fair if you snore or broke and don't tell people

Maybe find out their's first

No, let them figure it out.

that seems risky in that if you come out of the gate that way they may expect you to have mountains worse hidden deeper.

but it does seem like it'd be more efficient in weeding out people who have a low tolerance for such things.

lol

No... 😅 Not a good idea. Unless it's something really important to you and you know your relationship wouldn't make any sense if they couldn't accept that thing about you.

I think you should just be yourself.

nope. worry about him. is he normal? do a criminal background check. then after a few weeks you can tell him about whatever it is

Sure. Spare them the pain. ☺️