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I love how I have a happy little apartment, live where I want to in terms of location to things

My life is so simple. I'm so close to work. I often work from home. I love my dogs. My friends are amazing and supportive. I live near beautiful water and nature. I love what I do... I'm slowly being successful (I think?) at things I'm really passionate about...

But I can still get hung up and my life feels like it comes crashing down when ONE person lies to me and hurts me. What is that?

Completely irrational, is what it is
Our minds are sometimes our biggest enemy.

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
Because you have a heart
SW-User
It's not irrational at all, you want a real connection, and that's not irrational... It's just with the wrong people...
But it's all a process of never ending learning.
No it’s completely natural. You’re doing nothing wrong and don’t be hung up on one person. If they let you down it’s them who should be in a dizzy.

Hold your head up high and smile.

They can weep their loss.
Northwest · M
If you live an honest life, getting lied to hurts. That's a normal reaction. The passage of time will help.
It's not irrational. It's you being shown there's something that's come along that's crossways of your Inner Being which knows a lie isn't in alignment with your True Self. Your feeling hurt is an indicator of that, and that your natural guidance system is intact. See the lie for what it is and celebrate your wholeness.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
It sounds like you have a lot of things to be positive about, but a caring trusting person with a good heart can be easily hurt. Try to focus on all these positives in the hard times, I know it's difficult, but you sound like you have a lot to smile about.
caccoon · 36-40
@DHggmu I do, it's true
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@caccoon You're a sensitive soul, but you're in good company I think. I'm sure many people here can relate to you and support you.
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
It's not irrational--it's part of life. It is a very good sign that you can appreciate your successes and the positive things in your life at the same time as you face challenges in other areas. That's rational, not irrational! 💚
It's not irrational but perhaps you need to occasionally put things perspective and appreciate the important things and prioritise them over the actions of one.
caccoon · 36-40
@CheekyBadger definitely
Barny52 · 56-60, M
Cuz your highly strung like a lot of very talented people x
caccoon · 36-40
@Barny52 yikes
caccoon · 36-40
@Barny52 I hate this lol
Classified · M
We aren't solely reason, other things are important as well. 😥
RebelFox · 36-40, F
Caring is pain. Just be you, you’re sweet.
OhIsMe · 36-40, M
Human, is what that is.
caccoon · 36-40
@OhIsMe well, that's enough of that!
I understand your day better now <3
MonaReeves86 · 36-40, F
Do you own the apartment?
caccoon · 36-40
@MonaReeves86 just renting
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