Is wanting to talk on the phone a healthy standard when it comes to online dating?

I only talk to guys that after a couple of days of texting are into talking on the phone. I just find that it takes trust and communicatino skills to realize the importance of taking that step and as a result I weed out a lot of guys that aren't open to it, like a weed wacka lol. I find this process exhausting and I just want things to be more realistic. Do you feel me on this?