So here's an update...

I broke up with this guy maybe a 3 weeks ago.
I've since been on 2 other dates...
He text me on my graduation to wish me a good day.
He asked me if he could come over that evening but I was with family and said no.
He text the following day asking if I wanted to meet up for dinner.
And I didn't respond.
He then called today which I didn't answer and sent a text message asking me if I can make it to his friends wedding next week.

I have decided not to respond because I'm sure I text him back the day after I ended things with him to confirm I wouldn't be going.
I told him to tell them early enough so they wouldn't have to pay for my seat and could put someone else in my place instead.

I don't want to go, not even as his friend...

Gosh!


To make things worse the guy I did start to like is pulling away simply because I said I'm looking for a relationship and don't want to sleep with him until I know where we're heading...
And he's not decided...

Why is it so hard to keep your hands to yourself until you decide what you want...