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Northwest · M
I am not needy/clingy, but touch is important.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Northwest agreed. I will great you with a hug and a kiss when I'm happy to see you. But if something is a little off then I won't really be as open.
I also don't like cuddling on the sofa with someone that fidgets and is rather fussy.
I find it irritating and distracting especially if you're watching something on TV.
Sometimes I think when I talk like this it makes me seem especially fussy. But I've dated others that can happily find a position and sit in it for near enough close to half an hour or so before needing to readjust.
Whereas this particular person seemed to fuss every few minutes or so also wanting me to move too.
Ugh!
I also don't like cuddling on the sofa with someone that fidgets and is rather fussy.
I find it irritating and distracting especially if you're watching something on TV.
Sometimes I think when I talk like this it makes me seem especially fussy. But I've dated others that can happily find a position and sit in it for near enough close to half an hour or so before needing to readjust.
Whereas this particular person seemed to fuss every few minutes or so also wanting me to move too.
Ugh!
Northwest · M
@Mellowgirl You're not being extra fussy. It is uncomfortable, on regular basis, to be a contortionist, so you can match someone else's every twitch and move. :-) You can be "close" minus the "cling".