Is this too much to ask for?

I like a man to take the initiative to plan dates.
Be confident in getting to know me. And letting me get to know him.
I need a partner that can lead without brute force or manipulation.
Just the confidence that he has a plan and back up.
Nothing in life is perfect some people have a knack for working things out whilst others don't.

Playing to their strengths understanding their weakness, being unapologetically themselves.