There will always be people who have no idea that the reason they will be discarded by the majority is because of the their abusive nature. Eventually someone with a low self-esteem will be in their lives to accept their abuse. People who feel that people lose their value due physical attributes, getting old, and/or infertile, or having kids, etcetera have an abusive nature and shallow, and are best to be avoided. Life happens and people will get old, things happen. I would much rather get someone who is beautiful on the inside with a good heart. Beauty is not only in the eye of the beholder, but irrelevant as one day all of us will die and our bodies will decay. The essence is what matters. As far as I am concerned, abusive and shallow people are the ugliest.