Idk I’m on the spectrum as well and if someone is truly interested in you they would look past that you’re autistic. Some men just see autistic and think that we’re not worthy of love or see us as less than but a real man who really loves and cares about you would see you for the person you are and not the autism

I think your relative is rude. Just because two people share tbe same mental illness, it doesn't mean that they will always be friends. Maybe they will understand the struggles of being autistic.

I'm in my 40s,never been married and no kids.Remember that marriage is not an achievement!Things such as passing examinations with flying colours and getting a promotion at work are achievements though!

I don’t think it’s necessary that you find someone with autism. It’s just necessary that the other person loves you and understands you.

None of us are special to everyone, but, we will always be special to someone. The key is being open to finding that someone who thinks we are special.

Maybe, idk...it seems to me u need someone who understands..I hope u find him!