Should autistics just date each other since we have a lot in common?

I mean one of my relatives said that I should just date an autistic man or a man with special needs since I’m also special needs because we have a lot in common and it’s relatable. She said, “I’m not telling you who you should date but I think a guy that is similar to you would be relatable and don’t be hung up on looks.” I mean she’s right she has a point, but if there’s no attraction, then forget it. What if another non autistic guy guy was interesting to me?
I’ve dated none disabled men but two broke up with me after they learned that I’m autistic. Well they both asked what was one thing that I didn’t know about me and I was open and honest with them. One I dumped because he was an ass to me. I meet guys but it never works and I don’t hear from them.
I’m done dating. I’m 28, almost 30. I’ll never find true love. Guys always throw me away and one of my dates said he doesn’t wanna be seen with a “stupid woman” and I’m not special.