Do you ask out people of whom you know how many dates they had and when their last relationship was?

Well you know ..yes most people have a rule or a standard.

However the none of us are perfect , being a human being by default..renders us 'Imperfect'

This evening I was listening to a relationship coach, who gives great , commonsense advise.

Although 95% of it is from a Christian Church Perspective.. which is okay. However he makes no account for human perception.

So you seem to make quite a few posts along these lines , so it may well be that your judging the same woman ?

Which isnt fair on either of you.