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Why is it bugging me so much?!

I had been dating this guy for a while & there were a few red flags but I still liked him.... we are both under stress for a number of reasons but I also felt he wasn't making the time to talk etc I reached out asking if we cud talk things through & also where I stood with him but he kept saying he doesn't have the time & it'll have to wait.

I know i need to walk away... but he kinda got under my skin as he refuses to say what he wants....

I blocked him for a while & then got back in touch just to say hello... He's pissed off that i blocked him & said he didn't have time for it esp when he doesn't talk to anyone let alone me...

Again i know i need to walk away but hate the fact he can't say to me that he doesn't have time or he's seeing someone else or whatever is the reason why he can't talk to me...

Its really irritating... help!
SW-User
Nothing to do [b]except[/b] let it go..
SW-User
@BondGirl84 understood. The heart wants what it wants. I hope you find peace, because you deserve it 🤗
BondGirl84 · 36-40, F
@SW-User damn heart... head knows better... trying to keep busy so... I'll get there... thank u...
SW-User
@BondGirl84 You're welcome. You will get through this. 💜
Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP
Sounds as though he has ASPD

It may be irritating, but truth is he's not your husband/ bf .So doesn't owe you any explanations .

Maybe you like having something to think about other than the usual?

Perhaps it's the same for him too ..sort of like playing a little.

& There's absolutely no harm in your both viewing the situation this way

However don't get caught up in taking any of it seriously.
BondGirl84 · 36-40, F
@Kae20 all a possibility
notsure · 56-60, M
If he can't make time for you now he never will. Will always make excuses brush it under the carpet and walk on by with your head held high you are so much better than that.
MissTaken · 36-40, F
Time to move on to new pastures 🙂
BondGirl84 · 36-40, F
@MissTaken he was all about talking b4 i slept with him.... he didn't give anything back sexaully & i questioned him.... went down hill from there... we were dating for 2 months b4 i slept with him...
MissTaken · 36-40, F
@BondGirl84 If I were you I’d chalk it up to experience and move on to someone who will appreciate you 🙂😘
BondGirl84 · 36-40, F
@MissTaken trying to...
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
Big warning signs...walk away now!

 
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