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What the actual heck even was this date? It was the weirdest date I've ever been on.

I went out with this guy to meet up and grab dinner. I met him online on a dating app. I wasn't really wanting to drink but had a drink anyway to be nice. I finished the drink and he pushed for me to have another. I said I was alright for now and maybe later. He kept trying to get me to try his to see if I liked it. I finally caved and tried it and said it was good. What does he do? He orders me one. I didn't really want it but drank it to be polite. I ended up finishing it and he asked if I wanted another. I said no because I was feeling buzzed and still needed to drive home. He kept every so often trying to push his leftover drink onto me and I didn't take it.

As far as conversation goes it started off normal and fine until he turned it all into what turns you on and what do you like or not like in the bedroom and crap like that. I don't want to answer that stuff yet. I barely am getting to know you here.

Overall he was weirdly pushy with the drinks almost like obsessed that I try them and have them. He also sent me home with all the leftover food too even though I just wanted my leftovers.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
Hé was trying to get you drunk to have sex with you. He could be the kind of guy that would put those roofie drugs in your drink and knock you out. I wouldn’t go out with him again if I were you
Even if he didn't I can't help but think it sounds like he has an agenda. @apersonnamedit
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@apersonnamedit he might next time. He’s not a good person
Elisbch · M
I totally agree with @Jenny1234 @apersonnamedit
RebelFox · 36-40, F
Yikes. Sounds like a pushy, controlling wanker.
apersonnamedit · 26-30, T
@RebelFox Yeah I'm not speaking with him again
RebelFox · 36-40, F
@apersonnamedit Good, lady that would not end well.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Pretty large creep factor there. A second date would be a hard pass.
apersonnamedit · 26-30, T
@Adogslife There will not be a 2nd date
MercedesH · 26-30, F
He was trying to get you drunk so he could take advantage
Adamski24 · 41-45, M
He sounds like a fuckwit and dangerous, you best stay away. Hope you didn't give any personal information to him.
Maybe flag it up with the app so they're aware of it.
apersonnamedit · 26-30, T
@Adamski24 He only knows my name and age
YoungPoet345 · 26-30, F
Don’t like the sound of him either. I would say next, on that. Sorry you had to deal with that.
apersonnamedit · 26-30, T
@YoungPoet345 Let's just say there will bo no furthur communication
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
He wanted you drunk so you would have s*x with him.
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
@WaryWitchWandering Just sitting in the bathroom and bring paranoid of each other.
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@SinlessOnslaught No idea what we would be winning
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
@WaryWitchWandering I thought people went on dates just to have a bad time and not get anything out of it. Am I wrong?
NickiHijab · F
Still think we should make men illegal
apersonnamedit · 26-30, T
@NickiHijab Seriously
Did you meet him here? 🤣
apersonnamedit · 26-30, T
@apersonnamedit It sounds like he wanted to get you drunk to loosen your inhibitions.
Carlisle · F
Woah glad you got home safe
apersonnamedit · 26-30, T
@Carlisle I am too. The whole thing felt weird
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
Walk away...
apersonnamedit · 26-30, T
@ozgirl512 Yeah I'm not talking to him again
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
@apersonnamedit Smart girl lol
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
Overall weird vibes. I don’t know though, did he seem nervous or arrogant while doing this?

Either way, pushing the alcohol is strange and creepy
apersonnamedit · 26-30, T
@WaryWitchWandering Not arrogant but kind of like nervous but in a rush
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@apersonnamedit overall weird and if it’s giving you bad feels then definite goodbye
Lostpoet · M
Maybe not go out with strangers from an app.
apersonnamedit · 26-30, T
@Lostpoet it's not like there's many options in 2022
Lostpoet · M
@apersonnamedit try match or Cupid something you have to pay a subscription for it might help weed out the creepos.
Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP
his intentions were not good. Pls stay away from anyone who insists you keep drinking.
Dates and drinks end to date rapes to
Forgetmeknot · 41-45
Control freak.
SW-User
Don't meet him again 😑
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