Is it legit to not date before having found a well-paid job?

I don’t see the correlation between finding love and having a good job. If it’s true love, then the job wouldn’t matter.

No if she doesn't like you because you don't have a good job she's going to be high maintenance and I'd say not worth your time. Just my two cents.

No .. neither should it it matter if you are unemployed.

You will both need to be on the same page with regards to how you spend your leisure time & in agreement to date inexpensively.

However if as a young man you are looking to get married and start a fanily, ideally you should be able to financially support the idea.