Only asking this as i have been out of the dating scene for some time....

Got talking to a guy online & was very flirty & we met up for some fun a few nights ago... we both said about meeting up again... but since then he hasn't been as chatty or flirty... I took a chance & asked if he wanted to meet up this Sunday, I can see he's online but not seen my message... I have been asked out in a date by another guy for Sunday which I accepted as the 1st guy didn't get back to me...

Shld I message the 1st guy if he's still interested or just leave it alone?

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Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F

Leave it.. I hate to say it but he's probably had what he wanted from you and is now onto chasing his next conquest. The thrill of the chase and notching up numbers[big][big][big][big][big][sep][sep][sep][sep][sep][sep][sep][sep][/big][/big][/big][/big][/big]

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@Adaydreambeliever thought that was a possibility, I'm recently divorced & didn't want anything serious anyway but just thought the fun wud continue... ah well... if I wasn't interested anymore I wud have told him...

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

Leave it be. If the first guy was interested he would have been looking for your message right away.

ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

Leave it alone... Test it as some enjoyable fun and move on... You'll know when it's the right one ;)

Catzgano · 31-35, F

Wait it out. If he finally finds time to answer just say sorry I made other plans

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@Catzgano that was my next move haha 😄

tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F

Enjoy your date on Sunday and forget the 1st guy.He had his chance.If he chooses not to respond his loss.

Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M

Move on dot org.

Fairydust · F

Leave it, if he was keen he would have read the message and replied. Sorry 😞

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@Fairydust it's OK... I did get stood up by 2 different guys within 2 weeks recently yes its doesn't do well for confidence but I know it will happen & can't take it to heart... thanks tho...

Fairydust · F

@BondGirl84 don’t give yourself so easily. Some men just want the chase, once caught they’ll Chuck you back in 🎣

SkeetSkeet · 100+, F

Forget him.

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