Is it weak to not want to date someone very active?

@Lilnonames the one refusing or the one too active?

@scooogy too active

@Lilnonames Did you ever quit with a too less active partner?

@scooogy no

@Lilnonames what made you quit with partners then?

@scooogy they were to jealous

@Lilnonames seems that my (ex-)crush is like you here 😮

@scooogy what u mean?

@Lilnonames The irony of the moment when my now ex-crush finally told me (5 months after getting to know that guy!) that she had a boyfriend, I was so shocked that in that moment I decided to tell her that I hated that she was taken (after which she immediately apologized to me and told me that I could have just asked her) and about 3 weeks later, during which her boyfriend even tried to make me stop talking to her, she quit with him. But I found out about that 3 months later because I stopped talking to her indeed because I was mad at her. After these 3 months when I decided to talk to her again (I'd always meet her at her workplace at a local grocery store) I apologized to her and she forgave me and I could see her smile at me through her face mask.

But if she quit with him due to his jealousy which came up due to my jealousy, have I ruined my chances with her as well now? I mean she forgave me and I do know her for more than 3 years now while that guy barely knew her for half a year.