Relationship Advice

When you're dating and trying to get to know someone, don't reveal everything you're looking for in a partner because then they might try to pretend and play the part to impress you. If you say I'm looking for a church going Christian. They can always lie and say "Well you're in luck. You found him." Instead ask so what do you do on the weekends or what type of music do you listen to most. He might reveal he goes bike riding and visiting family on Saturdays and church on Sundays. And you don't have to tell them you want to be with someone very clean and organized, you can do a surprise visit and find out for yourself otherwise they can pretend to be clean. Next thing you know few months later your partner's place looks like the home on Hoarders.😂