Why in dating profiles do big women always say"if you dont like bigger women then go ahead and skip my profile" obviously we will if we dont like it?
Is it some sort of defense mechanism for them to say that? We can see your photos
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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
MntoNc · 36-40, M
@Keepitsimple you're right, but this is the generation we're in. If you were in your 20s and 30s you might be using it! Actually, people in their 50s use online dating!
SomeMichGuy · M
@Keepitsimple Agreed. A tonight partner? Maybe. A LIFE partner? Probably not!
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SW-User
@MntoNc I don't do dating web sites so I'm not aware of what you can do on them. If you match, I assume you can send a message? Maybe they're matched with someone who looks at their profile then tells them that they aren't interested? I really don't know why a woman would do that unless someone has said something unkind to them. 🤷♀️
MntoNc · 36-40, M
@SW-User the app doesn't match you with someone you don't want to be matched with. You have to swipe on them, and they have to swipe on you in order to match. Then you can send a message
SW-User
@MntoNc Maybe guys have swiped on them and then changed their minds, telling them that they're too fat for them? It doesn't make sense to me unless someone was rude to them about their weight. Or, maybe the women are looking for ltr and the guys just use them for sex, telling them afterwards that they're too fat to be their girlfriends?
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
It just saves hassle.. no one type suits everyone, so they are just saying up front, if that's not your thing move on..
Not a defence mechanism.. just saying it as it is..
It's kinda sad that you, or anyone else would even think that women, larger or not, need to employ defence mechanisms.. kinda sad to view people in that way
Not a defence mechanism.. just saying it as it is..
It's kinda sad that you, or anyone else would even think that women, larger or not, need to employ defence mechanisms.. kinda sad to view people in that way
MntoNc · 36-40, M
@SW-User so yeah, a defense mechanism, and yeah kinda in a passive aggressive way
SomeMichGuy · M
SomeMichGuy · M
@DrWatson Your beef is with the OP, but I think it is def. a waste of time to tell people who aren't interested to just move on.
RE: People who wsnt to leave nasty-grams, do you really think that ANY text will stop them?
But regarding your [i]own[/i] statement, it isn't obvious that the profile poster means what [i]you[/i] say, either.
If she meant that, she could be like people here and say "haters will be blocked or ignored"...
RE: People who wsnt to leave nasty-grams, do you really think that ANY text will stop them?
But regarding your [i]own[/i] statement, it isn't obvious that the profile poster means what [i]you[/i] say, either.
If she meant that, she could be like people here and say "haters will be blocked or ignored"...
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@SomeMichGuy I don't have a "beef" with anyone here. And I agree it is not obvious that my theory is correct, which is why I carefully chose the word "suspect."
I'm just participating in a discussion.
I'm just participating in a discussion.
SomeMichGuy · M
@DrWatson Your point should have been made to the OP as a reply of its own, that's all I'm saying. Replying to me...lol
