[quote] paul tidwell paul tidwell 0 seconds ago I've never really cared all that much about the Career or jobs potential mate actually took but yeah it's a bit strange to me how that dynamic plays out, but I think a lot of it has to do with a lot of these guys just wanting to be one to call the shots and they seem to think they can't control you and that's the whole problem.
With me though NOT being in control of the situation is half the appeal. Love being what it is and the beautiful complete loss of control it is and the way it drives even me to do things way outside my comfort zone and truly out of character.... Such sweet madness...
It was joked about the other day men rarely ever are like "check out the career on her!" and it's so true.
But I mean some of us at least like them smart. [/quote]