That is one part of actually “dating in person” tells you way more about compatibility then all those hours and hours of chatting on line does.as far as being let down I don’t think there’s ever an easy answer for everyone involved. My opinion is to be as honest as possible from the very beginning, show your true self and expect them to do the same ( they may not so you do have to be careful ) it sometimes hurts but sadly that is life . You could make a great connection also but you’ll never know if you don’t risk it a little..@Keepitsimple]