What would u choose between 2 dates?
Each one of their's strong points being:
1st) rocking body
2nd) amazing personality.
1st) rocking body
2nd) amazing personality.
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PirateMonkeyCabinet · 36-40, M
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@PirateMonkeyCabinet why
PirateMonkeyCabinet · 36-40, M
@Dan193 Assuming it is an either or (or majorly skewed to either side); If I am dating someone or looking to date someone, I do it with the intent of finding a long-term partner. Good looks is a nice bonus, sure, but I actually want to enjoy spending time with her too. I want someone I can engage in good conversations with, share passions with, who makes me laugh and have a great time, someone who'll keep my interests piqued even if I should turn blind.
To use an incredibly shitty allegory which hopefully still gets my point across: It's like finding a plate on which someone has used a thin layer of chocolate sauce to draw a fantastic piece of art. Looks good, tastes good then and there, but I'll probably close to just as hungry afterwards. A stew may not always look exclusive, but can be incredibly tasty and a fulfilling meal.
Not knocking on people who look good and saying they can't have amazing personalities too, but you seemed to present it as if it was either a rocking body or an amazing personality, not both.
To use an incredibly shitty allegory which hopefully still gets my point across: It's like finding a plate on which someone has used a thin layer of chocolate sauce to draw a fantastic piece of art. Looks good, tastes good then and there, but I'll probably close to just as hungry afterwards. A stew may not always look exclusive, but can be incredibly tasty and a fulfilling meal.
Not knocking on people who look good and saying they can't have amazing personalities too, but you seemed to present it as if it was either a rocking body or an amazing personality, not both.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@PirateMonkeyCabinet Thank you so much for the answer. The thing that a bit frightens me is that I don't want to break her heart. She is too precious to me. Also her father passed away very recently, and I feel like everytime we talk her mood goes up, and I am glad to be that for her, but... it's like I care too much about her and I don't want to ruin her life.