Scared of dating.

like, when I get guys that say they like me, find me pretty, like flirting etc.. i just dont believe it.. because I'm sure he probably messaged 30 other women on there trying to flirt and said the same thing.. I just... feel like I can't date.. ever....not online no... i feel its fake.. online.. in real life if a man comes up to me in a bar.. it feels more real.. like he didn't browse other women.... I want true love.

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TwiddlerofThumbs · F

Understandable. Men online have a way of making those they are after feel like cattle. Or more so, The internet is their candy store.
But, unless you take the time to get to know one of these people, you will never get that true love you are looking for.
You should try approaching people you are interested in and seeing where things go.

SkullsandBeauty · 26-30, F

@TwiddlerofThumbs Or more so, The internet is their candy store.

this is exactly how I feel it!... its...not a good thought... though I suppose I'll give this guy a chance... maybe we'll click.. maybe he'll really love me.

TwiddlerofThumbs · F

@SkullsandBeauty Maybe you will love him. But I wouldn't hold my breath. You've got to try on a few to see how they fit with you.

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

It's not where you look, it's more how you look for what you are looking.

There will always be the possibilities of something going wrong even in on the street, bar or restaurant. It's how you protect yourself that matters even on the internet.

Would you go on a blind date by yourself? Then why do so on the internet? It's what group chats are for!

AnonymouslyYours

Browsing applies offline as well.

SkullsandBeauty · 26-30, F

@AnonymouslyYours I guess yes. just easier online

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