Are you an attractive person? We’re you in middle/high school/college?

I’ve never been the pretty girl at all. Never. I was cute when I was younger but when puberty came I got FAT and taller. I was never the girl guys wanted to ask out or date. Never had boyfriends. I’m still in high school and 17. I’m 245lbs and 5’10”
I never turn heads, or nothing. My best friend is beautiful. Very attractive girl and she gets guys attention. Not all the time but a few times. I envy her. Plus she’s shorter and slimmer and in shape. I’m not going to sugarcoat it, I’m jealous and sometimes hate being around her because she’s so freakin PRETTY! It’s annoying!!! 😞😞☹️☹️😩😫😖😣
I’m UGLY 😭😭😭😭😭

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JBird · F

Let me give an advice as someone who, like you, was upset by the fact that I wasn't attractive to the boys in school/University: there's more to life than being attractive and having boyfriends.

I was short and chubby girl. I was fat shamed by everyone at school. I had people telling me that I will never get a decent boyfriend because I wasn't pretty enough.

If I had gone back in time and restart school, I wouldn't give a damn about what those losers told me. I would have spend my time studying and enjoying life as it was rather shutting myself in room and crying.

I did manage to get a bf but it didn't make me happy. I had bad relationships because I dated people to prove myself I am still worth it and I wasted my time and energy with wrong people.

I learnt that love comes to you when you're ready and least expected and it's worth it

Don't worry about not getting boys. You will eventually. Right now, focus on being happy