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So, i finally found a crush after much too long, but he lost interest. And, his lack of interest caused me to lose interest.

Now I either wait for the world to stop turning like I was, or I utilize a dating app. Blah.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
He's not desperate and hungry enough to chase you like a cat after a laser pointer.

That loser. Lol
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@SteelHands Well, it's quite the opposite. He wasn't chasing. In fact, he was intentionally talking to other women in front of me. And, ignoring me even though I took the extra time to go see him. I really think he was trying to push me away and bow out gracefully, because it was real coincidental how these women popped up at the same time as I did. It is what it is.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
@perceptivei okay now that you've gone into detail I'm taking back my first comment and saying this instead.


You are well within reason then.

Label him a dewshbag.
SW-User
Maybe take a break from crushes and stuff and then you'll see what you want to do, sometimes you end up developing connections when you don't expect to
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@SW-User Take a break??? I feel like I've been on break for years.
SW-User
@perceptivei yeah but those things either happen naturally or not. Hope you find what you're looking for though
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@SW-User The thing is they don't have a chance to happen this way. I don't have any way of meeting anyone.
Sapio · 46-50, M
He may not of lost interest. People get occupied. Give him a chance is my suggestion. If he hasn't outright rejected you, you're good.
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@Sapio He did outright reject me when he chose to chat with two other women tonight instead of me. And, they were driving! I walked to see him at his job! He wouldn't even come outside to meet me until they were gone. If he's that hungry for pussy, I don't want him anyway. Plus, I'm super serious about attention and respect. That kind of shit is an automatic turnoff for me. I don't want it.
Sapio · 46-50, M
@perceptivei I'm so sorry to hear that. Know that when one door closes another one opens.
Luchs · 51-55, M
Just using the term 'dating app' is unappetizing. Do you still talk at all?
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@Luchs He made it pretty clear he doesn't want to talk anymore.
Luchs · 51-55, M
@perceptivei 😢 sucks. Sorry.
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@Luchs 🤷‍♀️
User41 · 36-40, M
Hi my name is bob.

I love long walks on the beach, sensitive meaningful conversations and best answers.
Hdryder555 · 61-69, M
Just ask someone out
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@Hdryder555 Sure. No problem. I will when I meet someone though. Right now I don't have any way to meet someone. I don't go anywhere.
SW-User
Shame. Oh well it's a big world out there...
Why are these your only two options?

 
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