Screening/interrogating people on dating sites as to why they matched with you. Good or bad idea?
I'm considering this
31-35, F
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Comes across as creepy because then it just shows you don't trust me or that it gives me the impression that you think I'm gonna do something to hurt you
Though my mature side says that you're only doing it to protect yourself and the chances are that I'd probably do it for the same reasons
Though my mature side says that you're only doing it to protect yourself and the chances are that I'd probably do it for the same reasons
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@DoctorChristian it's for my own protection and I don't trust people at first.
@IAmNothing I can quickly tell you have a bad lack of self confidence and you're unable to defend yourself?
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@DoctorChristian I defend myself with anger
@IAmNothing Do you know martial arts or anything like that? I get anxious really easy because I can't defend myself and it shows so just to help yourself, make sure you can defend yourself and be ready to when you meet new people
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@DoctorChristian I'm a lot stronger than I appear physically
@IAmNothing Wait, physically strong or mentally strong?
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@DoctorChristian physically
That's good that you can protect yourself just in case someone doesn't set your alarm bells ringing