On a date do you show the real you or the better version of yourself?

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crystaleagle · 31-35, M

I used to show a better version, now I don't care anymore ..

popmol · 22-25, M

@crystaleagle has that helped?

crystaleagle · 31-35, M

@popmol While it made me more comfortable, some didn't like it.. I was getting a lot of success when I was adjusting to fit the criteria of another person .. if you're looking for a hookup it's fine .. but if you're looking for a keeper it's not fun later on .. I do look for long term relationships so it's uncomfortable for me ..