Is my husband gay?

I was always deeply hurt by his strange behavior and a lot of self doubt that he brought into my life. My only reassurance was I dated a lot of men before him that treated me very well, so I always knew that I'm not the cause for his strange behavior. He is so distant, always emotionally unavailable, but what gave me the clue is that he told me that he was always repulsed by his ex wife, and once when we were both drinking he confirmed to me that most woman don't make him hard, he made such a fuss about how I make him hard and how it was a surprise to him lol ( is he a closet gay) anyway I don't have a problem with gay people , I just don't see the fuss of me making him hard no one ever stressed that to me so many times, what's up?

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JenKarl · 41-45, C

His idea of a compliment

RadiantRuby

@JenKarl What kind of a weird compliment is that?

JenKarl · 41-45, C

Saying you are very attractive. Was he distant and emotionally unavailable before you married?@RadiantRuby

RadiantRuby

@JenKarl We only briefly known each other when he literally proposed, but he was always strange and I accepted because I was pregnant.

JenKarl · 41-45, C

Has he shown interest I guys? Majority of women don’t turn me on either. @RadiantRuby

RadiantRuby

@JenKarl I over heard him once talking to his best friend who he seems to be joined at the hips with, he clearly said I can't sleep unless I say good night to you. I was pregnant I thought that's something odd an adult male would say to his adult male best friend who is also married, ugghh it freaked me out never even asked him to elaborate

JenKarl · 41-45, C

That is odd. He maybe bi. Would that bother you? If he was gay he wouldn’t be turned on by you.@RadiantRuby

RadiantRuby

@JenKarl I've always been a lively person this relationship really took it's toll on me, his treatment is horrible either way my new year's resolution is to leave him. He is draining me, could pose a problem because he doesn't like wearing protection with me so I don't wanna catch anything from him, I have so many tests during pregnancy so I'm fine for now. What ever he's going through is too much for me !

JenKarl · 41-45, C

Seems like there are many things you should have thought about earlier. Have you asked him about things that bother you? Sounds like your marriage is over and never should have happened. @RadiantRuby